I guess what has me 'musing' about this topic several days after the election is over is that I was in school today reading Time for Kids with the 2nd graders {a few at a time} and one of the kids wouldn't even say the candidates name who he and his family didn't like out loud. And some of the other kids as we were reading drew pictures on the face of the candidate they didn't like. It was an equal opportunity defacement depending on the kid. When I mentioned it to the mom that was helping along with me today she said that they never discussed politics with there kids. It was a moment that made me go Hummmm. They are at that age where there opinions are influenced by both their parents and their peres. In 2nd grade maybe slightly more by there parents. For us, open conversation about both the candidates is what we decided on although I am sure I had more positive things to say about the candidate of my choice. I was open with the kids for the reasons for my choice but assured them it was ok to have a different opinion than me but I know that sharing my choice alone influenced them. As my kids get older I know that they will be influenced more and more by their peres and less by me and I hope we will be able to have meaningful dialog about the things we agree and disagree on in the future.
On election night after Obama had been declared the new President I was walking the kids up for bed time and Emily was trying to clarify who was who and who won. She asked me is Obama the 'brown' one or the 'light' one. I said he is the 'brown' one {after pointing out that my skin is brown too} and she said "Oh, sorry Mom, I voted for him"
You and a lot of other people Em. Change is hard - open heart and open mind.
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